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How to: Make a hard decision

Why this happens

Hard decisions often combine uncertainty, trade offs across competing values, fear of regret, and unexamined assumptions. Analysis can swirl because criteria are fuzzy or the frame mixes facts, beliefs, and emotional needs.

What usually helps

Create clarity by testing the logic of a position, surfacing and ranking values, and stripping hidden assumptions. The recommended starters guide a brief Socratic pass through logic, values clarification, and first principles so the choice aligns with what matters.

Suggested topics

Pick one of the discussion topics below to start a session with a coach.

Test beliefs through rigorous logic

Sophos of Piraeus

This systematic examination tests the validity of your beliefs or decisions through logic. By analyzing premises, consequences, and alternatives, you'll reach crystal-clear conclusions.

I am choosing between A and B. Help me state a position and test its logic. My belief: [claim]. Examine the premises and alternatives with me.

Discover and prioritize your core values

Sophos of Piraeus

This Socratic exploration reveals your authentic values through examining real choices. By analyzing conflicts and trade-offs, you'll create a clear hierarchy to guide decisions.

I am torn between A and B. Surface the values and rank them. I want this decision to reflect my real priorities, not pressure.

Break problems down to fundamental truths

Sophos of Piraeus

This Socratic process guides you through first principles thinking to deconstruct complex problems. By stripping away assumptions and rebuilding from axioms, you'll discover profound new insights.

Here is the problem: [summary]. Surface assumptions and rebuild from first principles. I might be treating constraints as facts - help me deconstruct them.